
Alexys Gonzalez
Therapy with me is a somatic journey into curiosity, play, and connection.
I offer a holistic, multidisciplinary approach to sex therapy—rooted in harm reduction, mindfulness, and anti-oppressive frameworks—shaped by my lived experience as a non-binary, mixed-race person. I specialize in supporting LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC communities, neurodivergent individuals, and those exploring identity, trauma, sexuality, and relationship dynamics. Through creativity, cultural awareness, and compassion, I help clients understand how family, culture, and systems shape their inner worlds, patterns, and relationships.
My mission is to help clients reclaim their lives and rewrite their stories by cultivating safety, pleasure, agency, and autonomy in relationships—with themselves, others, and the world around them. I also integrate expressive arts and creative practices, offering alternative ways to access insight, process emotions, and connect with parts of the self that words alone can’t reach.
With openness and adaptability, I support clients in exploring emotions, boundaries, and relationships to foster clarity, growth, and self-compassion. Together, we enhance self-awareness, develop tools for healthy communication, navigate conflict, and uncover the wants, needs, and patterns shaping your experience. We co-create a safe, inclusive space that supports embodied healing, connection, and transformation.
Client Concerns
- Anxiety/Depression/Grief
- Asexuality and Aromanticism
- Desire and Intimacy Discrepancy
- Gender Identity
- LGBTQIA2s+ Populations
- Non monogamy/Polyamory
- Sexual Shame
Therapeutic Approaches
- Attachment Theory
- Art Therapy
- Existential Therapy
- Gottman Method
- Internal Family Systems
- Polyvagal Theory
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Additional Trainings
- OCSB, Nika Gannon, April 2025
- Erectile Concerns, Dr. Ethan Schwab, April 2025
- Somatic Integration Practitioner, Inner Wellspring Academy, April 2025
- Somatic Mind-Body Healing Practitioner, Inner Wellspring Academy, April 2025
- Conscious Uncoupling, Carrie Ancel, January 2025
- Somatic Sexual Healing, Charlie Glickman, 2024
- 200 RYT Training, Yoga Farm Ithaca, 2022
- ADHD & Sex, Bianca Lourenco, 2022
- Understanding Out Of Control Sexual Behavior, Marc Gilmartin, 2022
- MA in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and Art Therapy, Antioch University, 2021
- Sex Therapy Certificate, Antioch University Seattle, 2021
- Colonization and Sex, Anne Mauro, 2021
- Gottman Method Couples Therapy Level 1, The Gottman Institute, 2021
- Attachment Theory, Kirk Honda, 2021
- Somatic Theory and Oppression with Alicia Guthery, 2021
- Sex Educator Certificate, Antioch University Seattle, 2020
- Sex Therapy in Abusive Systems, Kathryn Stickney, 2020
- Fat Sexuality, Sheila Addison, 2020
- Wheel of Consent, Katie Spataro, 2020