Our culture is deeply sex-negative, which means that we are conditioned to view sexual pleasure with shame, guilt, and disgust. This repressive influence can especially impact those who are non-monogamous, kinky, LGBTQIA+, folx with disabilities/chronic pain, and/or larger bodies. While many believe sexual problems are purely physical, as a holistic sex therapist, I’ll work with you to identify, explore and address mental, emotional, and relationship issues in tandem with the physical.

For example, if stress from work, family life, or other factors are making you want to shut down and hide out at the end of the day, your genitals might be retreating, too. I strive to help you achieve the fulfilling sex life you desire. It’s my goal to help individuals find their normal. My approach to therapy comes from an anti-oppressive, anti-racist lens with a style that is approachable, humorous (at times), and human before clinical.